Wonderpower works for a couple reasons - it allows you to think symbolically, realizing that just because you are physically going for that desert, might just mean that you need a little pleasure, or comfort in your life...or perhaps something else. Curiosity is makes all the difference.
Wonderpower also allows you to soften the dialogue. Any conversation becomes more effective when violent force is taken on out of it. This is no different with our internation conversation. We must honor and respect our needs and find a way to work with them. Not against them.
Once you watch the video, I would love to hear your thoughts as well as what strategies that work for you when you are feeling like you are starting to come from a place of force to get things done.