There is much danger in this...the gravest danger of all being that you move into a space of not being able to connect with or feel your own inner happiness and passion for life. Anytime we are expecting an outside source to bring us joy and fulfillment, we have gone wrong.
(Now, this is not to say that a partnership doesn't compliment and bring joy - but it does mean that if you are expecting the relationship to cover all the bases....you will be disappointed every time.)
So, what we're going to do is shift that question, to a yummy fulfilling question that will open up the possibility of your own passion, creativity, and loving flow. Try asking..
What do I want FOR me?
What do I need to do more of, that gives me life and energy, even when I think about it?
Experiment, and ask yourself this question every morning when you wake up and every night before you go to bed. See what insights come to mind, even write them down to track what comes up.
As the saying goes, you cannot give from an empty cup.
Put yourselves first.
Take time to figure out what you are passionate about and enjoy doing - whether it be related to sports, music, writing, yoga..or any other creative venture that makes your heart sing.
No, this will not push love away from you by taking up your time, it will draw love closer, because you are connected to your own inner space of love , passion and joy. Anytime you connect with this place within...you radiate and align with others who are feeling and living a similar level of love, passion and joy.
In a loving relationship, I believe, its not about finding someone to spend every moment with and complete you - but rather help to push you beyond your own limitations to a greater vision of yourself as well as encouraging you to live what brings you joy and fuels your creative juices.
What lights your fire? Share belowª